Liadan’s Mes

Ok, So I finally have watched the first half of this weeks Bachelorette, Deanna tells all. I figured that I should start with this, and do the show recap later.

Deanna says she is enjoying watching this season and seeing what she didn’t know before. She said it was a shock that they had a virgin on the show because he had never told her.

She said of Robert on the first night that it was nice that he thought out of the box, and instead of telling what he was he showed her.

She talked a little about the Race Track date and said the following.

She talked about Graham and where he refused to kiss her and be one of the crowd shocking to her.

She said Sean and her have a connection, and took the time to get to know her.

She talked about Jason & Her one on one date. She said that she has never opened up to anyone to the extent she did with him when it came to the subject of her mother. She said that by telling her about Ty his 3 year old he trusted her, and she felt that she could trust him.

Deanna said she has faith that her future husband is on the show.

Why she sent Richard home. She said he is the perfect guy. She said that on their date she could tell he was dying to kiss her, and all she could think about was how she wished she wanted to kiss him back, and she knew then that he wasn’t the guy for her. She could not let him fall in love with her more because it was unfair to him.

In speaking about what happened at the BBQ the guys threw. She was excited to get to spend time with all the guys. She felt alone, and she thought that Robert didn’t even care one way or another that he had a date with her. He totally under estimated himself. She said the guys made her feel alone, and that they were not focusing on what they had with her, but on what she had with all the other guys.

She talked about the Two on One date where she sent both Robert and Fred home. She said that she had been arguing with Robert, and that the mood was not at all romantic when he tried to go in for the kiss. She says on seeing his reaction to being sent home, that she didn’t feel any kind of connection with him, and failed to see how he had thought that there was one there.

She said the hardest part about sending Robert home was that Fred thought he was safe. She said she could have given him the rose, and let him stay another episode, but that would have been the cowardly way, and he deserved better than to be led on like that.

The Bachelorette tells all did a short on Trista and Ryan, the First Bachelor/Bachelorette Family. Like Deanna Trista was rejected her first time around on the Bachelor. Also like Deanna, She got a second chance, and was the Bachelorette, where she met and fell in love with Ryan. Trista and Ryan were married in a TV event, where 20 Million viewers tuned in to watch them say ‘I do’. They have a little baby boy named Max, and love parenthood.

Trista says she thinks Deanna is doing a good job, that she is saying what she feels which is needed, and she hopes that Deanna doesn’t hold back. She can’t wait to see where they go for the exotics, as that is where she fell in love with Ryan.

They took a look at the final 6 guys in this episode.

Jesse: Has broken ankles, toes, fingers, arms and his nose being a professional snow boarder. He says he loves that he gets to travel a lot, and live on the edge. He wants to be himself, and if he goes home, he goes home as himself. He wants to be the guy Deanna wants to be with and thinks shes a once in a life-time catch.

Twilley: Created a real estate tracking software when he was in college. Describes himself as a total Idiot. I think hes a total moron. He says he knows how to get Deanna’s attention, my take on that is in all the wrong ways.

Jason: Single Father. Describes himself as a risk taker. Lives his life to the fullest. He says he has everything he wants in life except for someone to share it with. He said that the best time he was able to spend with Deanna was after she had sent Robert and Fred home. She had the opportunity to see that she could lean on him for support. He thinks she will be a good mother.

Sean: Was small as a child. He is very competitive. He says he likes the nicer things in life, and if its not name brand that he won’t bother with it. He tans so he looks thinner, and sauna’s to loose water weight. (Not healthy). He says he talks to his mother 2-3 times a day, and lives a block from her. Deanna will have to live with the fact that he’s a mommas boy, but you can tell a lot about a man by how he treats his momma.

Graham: He has his concerns about Deanna. He feels that he hasn’t opened up to her as much as he should. He says he finds it very difficult to deal with the relationships Deanna has with the others. He thinks for them to move forward in a relationship that they need to argue more, and compromise on what they want. (This raises some serious issues with me. I think that Deanna would be stupid to choose him over the others because it would be a physical attraction, and not a good mental attraction that will last.)

Jermey: Likes extreme sports. As a real estate attorney he has very little time for a social life. He feels he has held back to Deanna, but has been able to open up to her about big things like the deaths of his parents. He wants to be around Deanna. He said ‘If there’s an empty chair by her, I’m taking it.” He doesn’t want the other guys in ‘his spot’.

Deanna said she doesn’t have a favorite, and that this show has shown her that she doesn’t know all of what she wants as well as she thought she did. Twilley and Jesse for example are extremely opposite of what she wanted coming in.

She said about Sean that he has ‘it’ together, and his head squarely on his shoulders. He has a big heart. She said they connected because of what they have in common.

She said Graham doesn’t have to do anything. She says she hates arguing with him but hes so hot, that its like going to see a train wreck and she just can’t keep from wanting to go back. (She sees the signs that this won’t work out).

She said that Jason is an amazingly great guy, and that she doesn’t want to break his heart.

She said the chemistry is really picking up with the 6 guys.